I’m struggling to come to terms with the death of Joe Paterno, a personal hero and mentor to so many. The New York Times said, “…the final thread of his narrative is one fit for the literary tragedies he adored.” And while we continue to pray for the victims of the sexual abuse scandal that rocked the Penn State community in early November, the final chapter in the book of JoePa’s life is just not how it was supposed to read.
Having achieved the most wins as a coach in the history of Division I football, Paterno’s statistics on the playing field are unequalled. It’s Joe as humanitarian and philanthropist, “life coach” and father-figure to an entire University – both current students and alumni – as well as thousands of die-hard Penn State fans, that makes the last few months of his life and its heartbreaking end such a bitter pill to swallow.
I believe my experience at Penn State University, as a student, watching JoePa run out of the tunnel in his signature too-short khakis, leading the Nittany Lions onto the field of Beaver Stadium in front of the frenzied adoring crowd, instilled my great love for college football. As a freshman, at that first game while sitting in the student section, I vividly remember being overwhelmed by the fervor of the fans, the deafening cheers and the first glimpse of our legendary Coach. Simply amazing.
A year later, I was humbled and honored when Joe came to my fraternity house to help kickoff a charity event. He spoke to us of the importance of helping others, of service to the community and its vital role in being men of character. I had the chance to speak to him that night, and we got our picture taken together; a treasured possession of mind to this day.
Now I serve on the board of the Adam Taliaferro Foundation. If you don’t know Adam’s story, it’s worth recounting here. Adam was paralyzed while making a tackle for Penn State in a game at Ohio State in 2000. Adam was a true freshman at the time. Joe Paterno’s face was the first Adam saw when he opened his eyes. Joe was calm and promised Adam he would get through it; he would be OK. After spinal-fusion surgery, three different doctors told Adam’s parents their son would probably never walk again. Coach visited Adam every few weeks in Philadelphia throughout the entire football season, encouraging his progress, pushing him to work hard and show him something new he could do each time he came by.
Several months later, the miracle was completed. Adam walked out of Magee Rehabilitation Hospital in Philadelphia. Even though Taliaferro would never again play football, Paterno encouraged him to keep following his dreams. “I came to Penn State to become a lawyer,” JoePa said. “But I never made it. You could, Kid. You’re smart.” Taliaferro is now an attorney in Cherry Hill, N.J., an elected official on the Gloucester County board of Freeholders, and is running for the Penn State board of trustees. “Kid, ya make me proud,” said Paterno.
JoePa, you made us all proud.
A man is more than a mistake, and it’s for each person to decide individually if they believe Joe made an error in how he handled the information he received from his assistant coach concerning Jerry Sandusky’s alleged actions. I think we all know that Joe wished he had done a lot more.
However, like Sue Paterno said to the board of trustees the night Coach was fired, “He deserved better.” Despite the rush to judgment by the media and the disrespectful treatment by the university he so dearly loved and supported throughout his entire life, he left this world with only positive feelings towards Penn State and encouraging optimistic words for his fans. ”His life is Penn State through and through,” Scott Paterno said in an article this week on ESPN.go.com. “He understood that and it never once occurred to him to be bitter toward Penn State.”
Many of you may not know that Joe and Sue Paterno quietly donated another $100,000 to PSU in December. That’s class. That’s character and honor. That’s Joe Paterno. He is the heart of Penn State, and always will be. Rest in Peace, Coach.
